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Virgo New Moon - August 25

8/22/2014

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The other day a woman was talking to me about getting a reading. I asked her what was it she wanted to know, because I wanted to determine whether I was the right astrologer for her. I have my particular skill set and I also know my strengths and weaknesses. She said she wanted to know how to get rich so that she could be secure in her old age. From what I could see, she was already in her old age, but, I did not mention that.

This was the day after the suicide of Robin Williams. I told her my emphasis was on helping people find peace of mind, which, to me is the greatest form of wealth there is, for without that, you actually have nothing as his death clearly showed. Couldn’t we say ‘he had it all’? And yet, none of that worldly stuff mattered – not wealth, success, acclaim, relationship, children and who knows what else….none of it satisfied whatever was in him that made him so unhappy. So, isn’t peace of mind better?

I have come to the conclusion that without inner peace, nothing else matters. But we are not born with it. It has to be learned.

She was still saying she wanted money. Okay. Fine. I think I will refer her to someone else. She won’t be satisfied with any reading I would give her and then she would add me to her complaint list.

So now we get to New Moon in Virgo. How many times have you heard “Virgos are critical”, or “Virgos always find fault”? Is Virgo inherently critical or is there something motivating that perfectionism?

In Evolutionary Astrology, we say that while Leo represents the top of the pyramid (the ego), when we get to Virgo, we turn the pyramid upside down, and Virgo is the nadir, the opposite of the apex. After the excesses of Leo, Virgo says wait a minute, can we do better, be better… What needs to change? What can be improved upon? Virgo ruling the intestines, separates the nourishing elements from the waste. It processes everything seeking the jewel in the stone. What’s wrong with that?

As it comes at the end of the bounty of summer, during the harvest, Virgo looks at everything to see what is useful, saving some seed for the next planting, processing some of the food and enjoying the rest right now. It seeks the best, the most useful, then either recycles or composts the rest. Just what we all need in our lives both on the personal and the global level.  

In my youth I went through a phase as an existentialist. At that time, I thought that suicide was a noble choice and that one should have the choice about ending their own life. Until a friend of a friend did it. I had only seen this woman twice, had heard a lot about her from my friend, her roommate, but that death affected me deeply. I realized that death, especially suicide affects so many more than just the person’s friends and family. We are all connected. What we do affects strangers far away and decades later. Twenty years later, by total coincidence, I found out she was the former best school friend of another friend who had lost touch with her and always wondered what happened. I was able to share what I knew. Another ripple.

We said “I am Travon Martin” when he was murdered. Now let’s say “I am Robin Williams.” People are hurting all around us. And they can be really good at hiding it.

I no longer see suicide as an option. In fact, I am totally against it. My current belief system includes reincarnation and I feel that suicide sets up lifetimes of challenging karma. Don’t misunderstand me. I am not judging anyone. But for me, it’s not an option. I don’t want my friends, family or circle of associates to wonder what they should have/could have done to prevent it, which is what everyone does. I learned I have to deal with it right here, right now.

So what do we do with our pain? We take the time and make the effort to process it, no matter what it takes. We do the Virgo work. It’s not by accident that the 6th house, ruled by Virgo is about health and work. It is also the house of service and methods. What is the connection between these things? They are all about making an effort. They are not necessarily about achievement and they are not static. They are all things that require regular effort…putting one foot in front of the other, showing up and doing it. The daily routines of life.

A friend said yesterday, “They say all you have to do is 20 minutes of this a day. But with 20 minutes of this and 20 minutes of that…the whole day goes by and I don’t see anything done.” Ah, but even if you filled a bucket one drop at a time, it would eventually get full. One of our problems is that we get bored before the bucket gets filled. Life has become so full of distractions that we cannot focus on the long haul. Television trains us to have a short attention span, by switching to commercials throughout the most intense dramas. I have not had a TV for 20 years.

We have all heard the expression ‘Rome wasn’t built in a day.’ If they only worked on the Coliseum 20 minutes a day…yes, it would have taken much longer to build. But we abandon the project way before completion because we get bored with it. Suicide is kind of like abandoning the project before it’s done. 

With the Sun’s ingress into Virgo on August 22 and the New Moon in Virgo on August 25, we are in the season of harvest and processing that harvest. In the old days, people would be canning, making jams and jellies, drying, making pickles and preserving as much of the harvest as possible to prepare for the winter. This was the time of the year when you would know how your winter would be. You would know if you were going to make it through the winter because you would see what was produced during the summer. If the crop was poor, it was going to be a hard winter, with little to eat.

Few of us spend any time examining our lives. We go along for years then, one day suddenly look around and wonder how we got to where we are.
Virgo can help us establish and follow through on developing daily routines that result in accomplishments over a long period of time. Virgo helps us develop a plan for getting things done. Virgo keeps us on track and the inner voice of conscience need not be harsh or shrill.


It is interesting that the last Pluto/Uranus conjunction in the mid ‘60s was in Virgo. Now, 50 years later, these two are squared. We knew what many of the global problems were at that time. But, no plan was established, no routine created to work on it…and here we are. The environment is in crisis, civil rights issues are out of control, people are murdering each other over resources, religion, politics, economics. The world is in turmoil. We could have made such a difference. And we still can.

It is not too late for you to make a plan. No matter what stage you are in your life, you can still set goals, make an action plan and then work on it day by day. Find ways to remind yourself, stay motivated and keep at it.

And finally, taken from Stephanie Austin’s article in The Mountain Astrologer:

“He who works with his hands is a laborer. He who works with his hands and his head is a craftsman. He who works with his hands and his head and his heart is an artist.” (St. Francis of Assisi)

Be the artist of your own life.

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Full Moon in Aquarius 2014.... Be a Chickpea

8/3/2014

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Now that I am writing a blog related to the New and Full Moons, they seem to happen faster demonstrating in yet another way that time is relative.

Today I was noticing how loud my alarm clock ticks. I thought “Who said it’s such and such a time? Who decided that there were 60 minutes in an hour, 24 hours in a day, etc.?” People, of course. And why did they set up these particular conventions that we are all now ruled by?

Recording time and setting up calendars was done by governments and/or religions to control people.

Farmers, fishermen and others who make their living from the land and sea, didn’t need clocks or calendars. They were in touch with nature and her rhythms. It was governments who wanted to levy taxes, control the resources and harness human labor, who needed to keep records of when things could and would happen. Now we are enslaved by it.

It is all part of human-made conditioning primarily during the patriarchal period of the last 5000 years or so with little or no intrinsic truth or reality to it.

The role of Uranus and Aquarius is to break free of conditioning so that we can evolve and progress. Have you heard the expression: “You can’t make a cake unless you break some eggs.”

It’s time to break some eggs in order to grow.

This Full Moon in Aquarius with the Sun in Leo, forms a T square to Saturn in Scorpio. Stephanie Austin in her article in The Mountain Astrologer suggests that “Squares involving fixed signs catalyze the breakdown of longstanding patterns.”

For the past few years that the Uranus/Pluto square has been in effect, there have been a lot of changes, both personally and collectively. Right now, it feels like the whole world is at war…why aren’t we calling it WWIII? I guess because the European powers are not involved. Of course we know that the US and Europe now let others fight their battles while they (we) fund and provision the armies of others.

I learned last night to my dismay that a good friend is on the ‘wrong side’ of a major conflict in the world. She has taken the side of the corporate powers. I am so disappointed. But I realized I have not taken a poll of all my friends to see where they stand on this issue. The only reason I know about her is that it came up in conversation. I could just act like it doesn’t matter. But, I have decided that it does matter and that if it means we are no longer friends….so be it. I have taken my stand.

Now for me, this is progress, since I tend to shrug my shoulders and say “whatever, you can think what you like.” But recently, I have been feeling that is how bad things are allowed to continue to happen. When people just let thing slide while bullies feel free to say and do whatever they want.

I have gotten much better at recognizing subtle power plays and control games during these past couple of years with Saturn transiting back and forth across my South Node in the third house. So called ‘blessings’ are often passive aggressive curses. I prefer the person who says; “F you…” to the one who says “bless you” hiding what they really feel. Which one is more REAL?

In the meantime, my intuitive skills are deepening, my inspiration is fired up and I am being more creative than at any other time in my life. Clearing out the cobwebs makes room for new ideas. Calling things by their true names makes everything come to life and sparkle.

It is a human tendency to seek security. Unfortunately, many of us want security at any price. Learning to trust is not easy. But once you let go, you are free of the need to control everything and everyone around you. You acquire emotional self-reliance, not looking outside yourself. You trust your inner guidance system.

The animal designated to represent Leo in the Zodiac – the circle of animals – in the male lion…the king of the jungle so to speak. But Leos are not inherently mighty, regal and independent. In fact, they are Leos because they have to learn develop these qualities. Yet many Leos walk around with bravado as if they already possess them. They manipulate others to feel in control of themselves. This is the unevolved Leo. Fearing they will be exposed for the frauds they are, they shout, strut and bully to keep others from seeing the truth. They roar to cover up the fact that they have nothing to say hoping to scare off others and avoiding being challenged. Like the Lion in the Wizard of Oz, when the lion becomes who he is meant to be, he no longer needs to brag about himself. He is quietly confident and sure and he doesn’t care what others think.  But this growth can only happen when the Leo is willing to be vulnerable. To roll over and expose its belly so to speak.

Are you willing to do this? Be wrong, be vulnerable, be annihilated, stop being on the defensive all the time? If you hang on you might miss something incredible like becoming your true self.

Rumi wrote a poem that describes this process....

Chickpea to Cook

A chickpea leaps almost over the rim of the pot
where it's being boiled.

"Why are you doing this to me?"
The cook knocks him down with the ladle.
"Don't you try to jump out.
You think I'm torturing you.
I'm giving you flavor,
so you can mix with spices and rice
and be the lovely vitality of a human being.

Remember when you drank rain in the garden.
That was for this."

Grace first. Sexual pleasure,
then a boiling new life begins,
and the Friend has something good to eat.

Eventually the chickpea
will say to the cook,
"Boil me some more.
Hit me with the skimming spoon.
I can't do this by myself.

I'm like an elephant that dreams of gardens
back in Hindustan and doesn't pay attention
to his driver. You're my cook, my driver,
my way into existence. I love your cooking."

The cook says,
"I was once like you,
fresh from the ground. Then I boiled in time,
and boiled in the body, two fierce boilings.

My animal soul grew powerful.
I controlled it with practices,
and boiled some more, and boiled
once beyond that,
and became your teacher."


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